A letter to a friend:
Blended families are NEVER easy, but
here's why I don't have a lot of
sympathy for your situation because...
we CHOOSE them. When I married Will, I
knew Trey was part of the
package...period! If I didnt want that...l
needed to marry someone else. Then I
learned if I am going to love Trey...' had
to learn to love the most important
person in the world to him...his mother.
And the two of us may not have always
LIKED each other... but we have learned
to LOVE each other.
I can't support any actions that keen a
man from his children of a oreuious
marriage. These are the situations that
separate the women from the girls.
Your behavior is that of an insecure
child who needs to recognize her own
weaknesses that MUST be
strengthened to take on the task at
hand. We can't say we love our man and
then come in between him and his
children. THAT'S selfishness...NOT love.
WOMAN UP... I've been there...l know. MY
blended family made me a giant...
Taught me so much about love,
commitment and it has been the
biggest ego death to date. It's time you
let your blended family make you the
giant you truly are.
Jada Pinken Smith
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