I was not a Southern California girl. I hated having my photograph taken. I felt shy and embarrassed around famous people. Votes: 17
I, personally, have had to rise above my feelings of inferiority to my sister Anjelica, not to mention feeling sorry for myself because I lost my mother so young. Votes: 10
I was a supporting character in other people's lives, which seemed right and familiar to me. I was also an outsider: English in the U.S., American in England, dogged yet comforted by that familiar feeling of alien-ness, which occupied that space where my sense of self should have been. Votes: 10
Don't waste time on what's not important. Don't get sucked into the drama. Get on with it: don't dwell on the past. Be a big person; be generous of spirit; be the person you'd admire. Votes: 9
I see myself as part English and part American, with a dash of Irish thrown in, and a pinch of Italian from my mother's ancestry. Votes: 9
When I was 12 and met my real father for the first time, I was terrified I would lose the one I already had. Votes: 7
The most important thing in convoluted families, I learnt as I wrote, is that the child feels loved. I knew from a young age that I was a problem which required constant solving; but I never felt unloved. I was lucky. Votes: 7
Because Dad was famous, I was so used to being identified as 'John Huston's daughter' that I couldn't think of myself as anyone else. Votes: 5
With my stepson, it is very important to me that there is no drama around the fact that he has two families. Votes: 5
When I moved to London at age 16, tired of the shuffle around other people's houses and ready to live on my own, I met my English brother and sister, who instantly claimed me as family. Votes: 5
If you have security, you can rebel; if you don't, you hold on to any scraps of it that you have. Votes: 2
Be a big person; be generous of spirit; be the person you'd admire. Votes: 1
I loved Dad more for treating the biological reality as trivial, irrelevant. He loved me no less than his other three children. Votes: 0